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Sunday 24 January 2016

Exploring Home

As I am no longer out galavanting the world, I figure I will use this blog to write about what is going on in my head until my next adventure presents itself. However, just because I am not out exploring overseas does not make me any less of an 'explorer of the world'. After living in Sydney for 10 years this year, I am still exploring the beautiful city that we live in. There is still so much of the country I am living in that I am yet to see. So for that reason, I will be keeping my URL as it is! I think it is so important to explore your own town. You may think that you have seen all of it, but I can guarantee that you haven't. The other day I travelled into the city with my Nana Flick, and as we got off the bus she grinned widely and said "I love coming into the city, it makes me feel like a tourist!" And it's true. It doesn't matter if you have been somewhere 100 times, if you are willing to be excited about being there you can make the most of it and be a tourist in your own city for the day. I do know it's hard though. Often I think about how sad it is to be back in boring old Sydney, and how I wish I could be somewhere else experiencing new things. But I know that I need to get myself out of that mindset. Because we truly do live in a beautiful country, and there is still so much for me to see. Not only that, but I can also experience new things right here! You don't have to be kilometres away from home to have new and exciting experiences. A place is only as boring as you allow yourself to believe it is. 



But back to my original point, I will be using (or trying to use) this blog to write general posts about life. If you were just here for the travel posts, then I will say goodbye and thank you for reading up until now! If you continue to read my blog, then thank you as well! I hope the inner musings of my mind interest you. 


Friday 15 January 2016

Harrison and Caitlyn’s tips for backpacking around the world!

Over the course of our travels, we learnt a lot about travelling. Other travellers along the way taught us so much, and some things we had to learn on our own. I thought that I would make a list of our top travel tips for any of you who are thinking about doing a backpacking trip, which I really think everyone should do at least once in their lives as it is a truly life changing experience.

·      Before you leave, check all the countries you plan on visiting’s visa requirements.  And whilst it says that you do not need a visa to enter a certain country, make sure you check how long you can be in that country without a visa. Don’t rely on travel agents to do it for you! That was probably our biggest mistake. Whilst we knew you didn’t need a visa to enter South Africa on an Australian passport, we didn’t check how long you could stay in the country. It was an expensive mistake to say the least.
·      Zip lock bags are a blessing in disguise. The amount of situations we encountered when we needed zip lock bags was more than I had ever thought.  They are incredibly handy to have in your bag. We found they especially came in handy for putting shampoo bottles in. Often we would have to leave a hostel and the shampoo bottle would still be wet, so we would have to put it in a zip lock bag. Although we did just constantly keep it in a zip lock bag so it didn’t leak all through our backpacks. They are also fantastic for carrying around your lunch for the day!
·      Pack as little as you can. You are going to pick up things along the way, whether they be souvenirs or a much needed new pair of jeans, and if your bag is completely full before you leave there is no way you will fit anything new. Also don’t be afraid to throw out clothes. Especially if you are travelling for a long period of time. Wearing the same 4 t-shirts for 8 months can get a little boring. 



·  Also make sure your backpack is comfy! You will be carrying it around for a long time.



·      Travelling during the night is going to save you a fortune in travel and accommodation expenses. If you have the option to take a night bus or train, definitely take it. It may be some of the most uncomfortable hours of your life, but you really will save so much money. While we were in the UK we used a bus company called MegaBus. Their bus fares are incredibly reasonable, and they often had night options.  When you travel through the night you don’t have to worry about paying for that night’s accommodation, and the night fares are generally a lot cheaper.
·       If you are travelling to Europe and the UK, make sure you always carry small change! Most public bathrooms throughout Europe and the UK cost 20c to use, sometimes more. More often than not they do not give change, and won’t accept anything more than 1 pound/euro. The worst place we came across for expensive public toilets was Venice, where you had to pay 1 euro to go to the bathroom.  Most times it was better to buy a drink at a cafĂ© and use their bathrooms for free. All the money we spent on going to the bathroom probably would have got us a few nights accommodation!
·      If you are planning to travel anything like Harrison and I did, you will probably be eating a lot of pasta and sandwiches. Which obviously aren’t the healthiest of foods, but are definitely the cheapest. This possibly means (I know it did for me) that you are going to put on weight while you are away. And that is totally okay! Even if you do manage to eat relatively healthy, there is also the stress of travel and the trying of new foods and drinks. It is likely that you will put on a few kg. But you really shouldn’t let that bother you. It is likely to fall straight off once you get home and get back into your normal routine.
·      Keeping on the topic of food, when looking at hostels one of your number one priorities should be a kitchen.  Staying at a hostel with a kitchen will save you so much money. You can buy a few nights worth of pasta and mince for less than what you would spend on a meal for two out at a restaurant. You can also then buy a loaf of bread and sandwich ingredients and keep them in the fridge, giving you lunch for a couple of days. An extra bonus is if the hostel offers a free breakfast as well as a kitchen.
·      Whilst it is good to save money on food and make your own, you should also treat yourself and try some of the local foods. If you are in Scotland you have to try haggis! It is surprisingly yummy. Same goes for pasta in Italy and cheese in the Netherlands. You don’t have to go all out and have a huge meal, even if you share it with someone it is definitely worth trying the local foods.


·      If you are travelling with a tour group you must make sure to talk to people! If you are like us and with another person, you mustn’t stop that from meeting new people. Some of the best people you will ever meet will be while you are travelling. If you aren’t travelling with a bus tour, you can still make friends at hostels. Especially if they have a kitchen or common area. Become friends with the people in your room; it makes staying with them a whole lot less awkward.
·      If you are staying at hostels, book dorm rooms rather than private rooms. You will save a heap of money, and meet some really cool people.
·      If you are planning on taking your phone, you should buy SIM cards locally.  Rather than spending heaps of money on roaming, or buying an international SIM card that may or may not work in every place you go, research the local phone companies and buy a SIM card whilst you are over there. If you are travelling to Europe you will have to make sure the SIM works in all the countries you will be going to. You may need to get an international SIM in Europe if you are going to many countries.
·      If you are travelling with someone for a long period of time, make sure you give each other some space every now and then. You don’t even have to be away from each other. You can be in the same room and doing your own thing like reading or in our case, colouring. It just gives you some ‘alone’ time, which is important when you are going to be spending that much time with someone.


·       Try and plan to spend more than a few days in each place you go. At first we were staying a week and sometimes longer in places. However we realized that if we wanted to get to everywhere we had planned we would have to cut down the time spent in each place. Whilst it was great to get to see more beautiful places, it was pretty exhausting moving every 2 to 3 days. Just as we would get settled we would have to leave again. Give yourself some time to really see the place you are going, and some time to relax at that place too!
·      Back up your photos!! While we were in France we had our hard drive stolen, along with the photos from the first month of our trip. Luckily I had been backing up most of the photos, but those I didn’t back up were lost. Back them up to something like One Drive, where you can access them no matter what happens to any electronic device you take with you.
·      Busabout is a really great bus tour company for anyone looking at doing a bus tour around Europe. They are super flexible as it is a hop on hop off system, which we really loved.




I think that those are our top travel tips! Really you should just make the most of your time abroad. It will be some of the best times of your life, and will be something that you will remember forever. Our world is an incredible place, with so much to teach us. Be willing to learn, and realize that you may have your beliefs questioned.  But that is one of the best things about travelling, you are constantly learning. If anyone as any questions, I am more than happy to answer them!


Tuesday 12 January 2016

Home.

Our last day in South Africa was awful. Not that we had a bad day, just awful in the fact that it was time to say goodbye. We all acted like it was just another day. Everything was fine. But underneath this false sense of calm, there was a storm brewing. The time to leave ticked closer, and we went on with our day, trying to ignore the fact that in a few hours Harrison and I would be on a plane home. I say home, but after travelling for so long I wonder; where is home truly? There were so many places we visited that after a while, kind of felt like home. After a long day we would say ‘it’s time to go home’ without even thinking of it, referring to whatever hostel we were staying in. And after 3 months, South Africa felt like home. I don’t want to be corny and say ‘home if wherever you heart is’ but I’ve learnt that in a way it’s true. You can make anywhere home if you want to. Your body is your home, and thankfully that means home is mobile. Sure, there were places that we went where it felt the complete opposite to home, and I couldn’t ever think of calling them home; but then again to many people those places are home. Anyway enough with the rambling.  The time did finally come for us to leave, no matter how hard we willed it not to. Harrison and I said goodbye to my Aunt and Uncle and cousin Ian at home, and then left to drive to the airport with my cousin Lyndsay, my nana and her friend. We made small talk and tried to forget about the goodbye looming in the near future.  But we did arrive at the airport, and once we were there it was a rush of checking our bags in and having to say goodbye. There were tears, and it was traumatic. The hardest thing about leaving my family in South Africa is that I never know when I am going to see them again. It could be this year, or in 5 years. That was always the hardest part for me.  And being with people for 3 full months, seeing them every single day and then having to say goodbye for who knows how long is heartbreaking. It’s like this rock of sadness and fear in your chest that threatens to engulf you and drag you down. It’s incredibly difficult.



To make the whole situation worse, once we had said our goodbyes and walked through the checking in area, we were faced with the longest passport control queue I think I have ever seen. We waited for almost 40 minutes, when I wanted nothing more just to sit down and be in peace. Luckily the flight wasn’t too bad. Although I did have an old lady sitting next to me who just did not want to stop chatting. I learnt a lot about her life on that 11-hour flight. We made it through customs back in Sydney, and walked through, back to the real world. And then our families were there, hugging us and crying. It still didn’t feel real yet. We were really back. Almost 9 whole months had passed.  How could it have possibly gone so quickly? Time is not your friend.  You think you have so much of it, when in reality you have so little. And it goes so fast. You really have to grab it and make the most of what you are given.
                                                                              
We have been back for over a month now, and our experiences overseas seem like a dream. Did that all really happen? If it did how did we fall so easily back into the exact same life as before? As if we haven’t both been changed so immensely? I know I am not the same person that left Australia almost 10 months ago, but yet here I am, already back into the same routine. It is a really strange feeling.  Of course there are photographs, and memories that prove it did really happen, but it truly feels like we never left. It has me itching to get out there and see even more of the world. If only travel wasn’t so expensive.